Chopsticks

How are you with chopsticks, by the way?I have a tendency to pile my food into a chinese soup spoon - I'll make a tidy little bundle of food, all nicely balanced. Nothing is allowed to really overhang. And if it cannot all fit into my mouth gracefully, I'll take it apart and the piling begins anew. One guy I dated once had quipped "you can stop playing with your food nw and eat!". But I cannot